Saturday, February 24, 2007

Ego Boosting Parenting

Nothing is more ego boosting than being at a McDonald's playground and mom's looking at you strangely, because your kid actually listens. *grin*

Sarah wanted to go up the slide, and all I did was turn to her, up from my food and book and say, "No Sarah, slides are for down, stairs are for up." and she stopped and went to do it the right way.

The mom next to me was like in shock. A short while later she turned to me and commented "I was amazed, and told my husband he just said it once and listened. We say it a couple times and she might not."

My response was simply "she knows I will pick up the food and leave if she doesn't listen. Do it once or twice and she'll listen and take you serious."

I was amused.....

12 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

way to go carmachu...That is how we raised our boys...it is called.....say what you mean and mean what you say ...and always be consistant...yeahhhh carm..

10:13 PM, February 24, 2007  
Blogger Nicole said...

Yeah for good moms and dads!! Teaching by example. I've heard that works wonders!!! Good job.

Reminds me of being at the park with my (then) 3 kids and they were all behaving. I was with friends who each had one. Their kids were disobeying and throwing fits left and right. The moms kept making comments about how all 3 of mine were behaving and their one each wouldn't even behave. I really didn't know what to say. I down played it then, but it makes me proud to think back on. If I had to do it differently, I would've said something else besides, "yeah, but they have their moments too." That was SO not what I should have said. OH well. Hind sights 20/20.

10:30 PM, February 24, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

Quinn:

Yup. I watched anotehr mom threaten her kid trying to get him out out the play area with the threat of "I'm leaving without you" and tried to leave....and the kid knew it wasnt going to happen...You cant make idle threats.

10:50 PM, February 24, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

Nicole:

Yup. Sarah does have her melt down moments, but overall....consistancy is the key as you know.

It does make you proud, knowing your doing the right thing.

hind sight is always 20/20

10:51 PM, February 24, 2007  
Blogger Kim's Life said...

Ok what how do you get that power. Can you pass some my way.

5:56 AM, February 25, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

Its magic Kim's life......*grin*

But seriously, whats the problem? If I cant help I know someone around here might.....

8:05 AM, February 25, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

Welcome Kim's life....

8:06 AM, February 25, 2007  
Blogger Amie Adams said...

No really. Where did you get the "behaving" model? They didn't offer those at our dealership.

11:47 AM, February 25, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

It involved lots of yelling and screaming ealier....mom...

1:16 PM, February 25, 2007  
Blogger Deb said...

I think you are just damn lucky that the child likes to amuse you. I think that sara probably is smart enough to see you beam with pride when things like this happens and she is just tossing you a bone to let you have that moment of glory. Just wait I bet she has an evil plan!!!!

9:52 AM, February 26, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, consistency is the key.

Mine know that I say what I mean too.

You should be proud of yourself and Sarah.

Haze

2:00 PM, February 26, 2007  
Blogger carmachu said...

Deb:

Of course she has an eveil plan in place. She IS my child after all. Heck I think she' plotting against her mother....

Haze:

thanks for stopping by. Yup. thats how it is....but no throw teakettles here....:D

2:18 PM, February 26, 2007  

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